Daughter’s Drug Addiction ?
Question by tracey s: Daughter’s drug addiction ?
My name is Tracey, I have a 21 year old daughter who is taking prescription pain pills I just don’t know what to do so I will try and tell you as much as I know. two months ago is when we learned that she had been snorting oxycontin so we thought we good help her on our own i looked on the internet on things to do to help with the withdraws did what we had to do she does not live at home so we did not give her anymore money I did by her cigarettes I took her to see a counselor at my school she just went a couple of times. I thought maybe she was doing better she was over at our house took money from her brother, so we new she was still using confronted her says she will stop well than yesterday I went to her apt her and her boyfriend had been fighting he had money come up missing and she is still doing drugs from what I have been able to get out of her she started doing pains pill and smoking pot at age 12 . Me and my husband did not raise her to be like this I know she is a good person we have raised are children is church we do not do drugs,smoke, or drink do not allow it in our home as a parent you think were did I go wrong ,,,,,, she was over to the house yesterday being confronted with everything that she has done I have told her she has to make a choice between her family and the drugs that I think she can not do this on her own, she needs treatment we live in southern Ohio very small town with limited resources, she says I don’t want to go anywhere I will not know anyone. I think part of her wants help the last I talked to her last night things were left up in the air I hung up on her told her she needs to make a decision on what she is going to do she does not have any insurance for treatment my husband is a construction worker. I go to school full time, plus I trying to help my sister out she was just diagnosed with cancer so I have been taking her to her treatments and trying to handle things as best I can but I feel like I’m almost at my breaking point. I think there is also more going on with her I think she is taking other pills to and maybe doing things to get the pills I don’t think she is using needles but I’m afraid if something is not done soon that will be the next thing she will try. Imy husbands family over the last two years there as been drug addition he has two sister’s & a brother who are now serving 5to8 years in prison due to drug trafficking and my daughter tells me that when she was 12 thats when it started was with them, so if you can help me and my family in anyway I would appreciate it. Tracey Smith
thanks for the advise I did email jeff VanVonderon from the show intervention he emailed me back waiting on him to call me back.
tracey
Best answer:
Answer by NA
I am sorry for the pain that you are suffering. Please go to an Al-Anon or Nar-Anon support group. These groups will help you deal with the suffering which will in turn provide an indirect assistance for your daughter. These groups are free and the group nearest you can be found ont their internet pages or in the local phone book. You will be with people who understand your problem and want to help you. Helping yourself right now will be the best help possible for your daughter. Good luck!
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Im afraid that unless she wants to help herself by going to a drug rehab, there is nothing anyone can do. Im not sure that threatening her with loosing her family is going to work as these are drugs and she may be more addicted than you think.
Just ask her that when she is ready for drug rehab you will be there to support her. You will support her when she is ready to go to counselling and do something about kicking her addiction. You are always there to listen to her when she wants to let you know anything about her past that she would like to say to you.
And thats all I think you should tell her and do. Search for all of the drug rehabs in your area for low income family’s, such as the link below
http://www.addictionnomore.com/drug-rehabilitation-centers-ohio.html
and investigate your options as to which would be the most beneficial. Then focus on your sister, your schooling (as it is your future) and all that you need to deal with at home.
Sorry I cannot be of more help.
Best of luck to you and your family. Rehab is expensive. With limited resources, I belive her best bet would be to start going to NA and/or AA meetings. If she needs medical rehab, that is just a price that will have to be paid somehow – so that she can get better.
To find AA near you:
Lancaster Area Intergroup (Lancaster, OH)
111 W Wheeling Street
Suite 206
Lancaster, OHIO 43130
United States
Phone:(740)653-4869
A.A. Intergroup Office (Newark, OH)
438 Mt. Vernon Road
Newark, OHIO 43055
United States
Phone:(614)345-5227
Narcotics Anonymous: http://www.na.org
This site may help too
http://www.oxyabusekills.com/bupe.html
I would love to give a really long answer however i would say you need to speak with a professional,
Check out Intervention the show on A&E and possibly try to get on it.
Tracy-Let me start out by saying I’m sorry for what you and your daughter are going through. DO NOT give up hope. It is very difficult to talk on this chat line, so feel free to e-mail or instant message me. I currently I’m a co-occurring Probation officer. Prior to this I specialized in inpatient substance abuse with the main focus on Women/Girls (27 yrs) I also am in recovery. So I would be pleased to answer any questions individually.
Oxycontin is the new Heroin.and very dangerous when snorted or used I.V. Addicts always find way to get money so cutting her off is an attempt that she quickly slide step.
The point of going to treatment is to be around new people. All states have a department of Mental Health and all states have at least some sliding scale treatment center-that are not cost pro hibitive. There is some more I could talk to you about Tracy, but would rather do it privately. Like I said I’m currently a PO and can give you my credentials if you are nervous about who I am. I also have 2 grown daughter and one has an eating disorder and one that is a recovering cocaine/alcohol addict, Please thnk about e-mailing me. All my info is on my profile information site.Good Bless and I am more than willing to help
TRACY PLEASE READ THIS E-MAIL-IIT WILL HELP
portsmouth ohio (scioto county) is a shit hole filled with crime,poverty,and drugs. It is a washed up town of yesterday that is getting worse and worse.? Their is no recovery for this city. but hey they have murals…..lmao